Veteran Nigerian actor, Chiwetalu Agu, has urged single individuals to thoroughly investigate their potential spouses before making the commitment to marriage.
In a viral video posted on Instagram, Agu shared valuable advice for those contemplating marriage, emphasizing the importance of not succumbing to societal pressure or making decisions out of desperation.
“Marriage is not a do-or-die affair,” Agu stated. “If you have an abusive partner or are in a toxic relationship, run for your life. If you are not happy in your marriage, seek help or leave for your safety.”
The seasoned actor underscored the dangers of staying in harmful marriages for the sake of children or financial stability. “Divorce is better than rest in peace,” Agu warned, recounting the tragic case of a woman who was fatally burned by her husband. “Now, who will take care of the kids? Is it the husband who killed you, or the relatives who love their own families?”
Agu also advised individuals to be mindful of their choices and urged them to conduct thorough background checks before proceeding with marriage. “Always remember to do background checks before committing to someone. It’s not just about physical attraction or societal expectations,” he cautioned. “I want to marry him or her by all means – see you, see death. My mates are all married, but I’m still single – see you, see death.”
“I pray we don’t make mistakes that will cost us our lives in the name of marriage,” Agu concluded.
